{"id":268,"date":"2025-03-02T17:23:59","date_gmt":"2025-03-02T16:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/?p=268"},"modified":"2025-09-17T19:38:17","modified_gmt":"2025-09-17T14:08:17","slug":"przedszkolak-ocenia-nauczyciela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/preschooler-evaluate-teacher","title":{"rendered":"Czy przedszkolaki mog\u0105 ocenia\u0107 nauczycieli? Raport od ma\u0142ych ludzi"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-268\" data-postid=\"268\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-268 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n                    <div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_row themify_builder_row tb_w329325 tb_first tf_w\">\n                        <div class=\"row_inner col_align_top tb_col_count_1 tf_box tf_rel\">\n                        <div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_column tb-column col-full tb_99ya325 first\">\n                    <!-- module image -->\n<div  class=\"module module-image tb_15vu932 image-top   tf_mw\" data-lazy=\"1\">\n        <div class=\"image-wrap tf_rel tf_mw\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2240\" height=\"1260\" src=\"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans.png\" class=\"wp-post-image wp-image-390\" title=\"Czy przedszkolak mo\u017ce oceni\u0107 nauczyciela - spostrze\u017cenia dzieci na temat zaj\u0119\u0107 lekcyjnych\" alt=\"Przedszkolak oceniaj\u0105cy nauczyciela w klasie, przekazuj\u0105cy spostrze\u017cenia na temat nauczania\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans.png 2240w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2240px) 100vw, 2240px\" \/>    \n        <\/div>\n    <!-- \/image-wrap -->\n    \n        <div class=\"image-content\">\n                    <h3 class=\"image-title\">\n                                    Czy przedszkolak mo\u017ce oceni\u0107 nauczyciela - spostrze\u017cenia dzieci na temat zaj\u0119\u0107 lekcyjnych                            <\/h3>\n                        <div class=\"image-caption tb_text_wrap\">\n            Nawet przedszkolaki mog\u0105 zauwa\u017cy\u0107 i przekaza\u0107 informacje zwrotne na temat nauczania w klasie.        <\/div>\n        <!-- \/image-caption -->\n            <\/div>\n    <!-- \/image-content -->\n        <\/div>\n<!-- \/module image --><!-- module text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-text tb_d9kj467\" data-lazy=\"1\">\n    <h3 class=\"module-title\">Czy przedszkolaki mog\u0105 ocenia\u0107 nauczycieli? <\/h3>    <div  class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n        <p><strong>Pomys\u0142, kt\u00f3ry sk\u0142oni\u0142 mnie do my\u015blenia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Niedawno natkn\u0105\u0142em si\u0119 na kr\u00f3tki filmik, w kt\u00f3rym nauczyciel poprosi\u0142 swoich uczni\u00f3w o ocen\u0119. Pomys\u0142 by\u0142 prosty:\u00a0<em>Je\u015bli nauczyciele mog\u0105 ocenia\u0107 uczni\u00f3w, dlaczego uczniowie nie mog\u0105 ocenia\u0107 nauczycieli?<\/em>\u00a0Uderzy\u0142o mnie - niezale\u017cnie od pierwotnych intencji stoj\u0105cych za tym filmem - \u017ce to wcale nie jest g\u0142upi pomys\u0142. Ale potem m\u00f3j m\u00f3zg nauczyciela z wczesnego dzieci\u0144stwa mia\u0142 co\u015b do szeptania.\u00a0<strong>Czy to rzeczywi\u015bcie mo\u017ce dzia\u0142a\u0107 w przedszkolu?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Kr\u00f3tka odpowied\u017a?\u00a0<strong>Nie.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">D\u0142uga odpowied\u017a? C\u00f3\u017c, roz\u0142\u00f3\u017cmy to na czynniki pierwsze.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Syndrom \"kocham pani\u0105\"<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Widzia\u0142em to na w\u0142asne oczy: nauczyciel m\u00f3wi klasie 3- lub 4-latk\u00f3w,\u00a0<em>\"Zr\u00f3b dla mnie serce! Powiedz, \u017ce mnie kochasz! Zr\u00f3b dla mnie kartk\u0119!\"<\/em>\u00a0I rzeczywi\u015bcie, malutkie r\u0105czki zaczynaj\u0105 wycina\u0107, rysowa\u0107, klei\u0107 i...<strong>bum!<\/strong>-Pojawia si\u0119 stos serdecznych arcydzie\u0142. Nauczyciel jest obsypywany\u00a0<em>\"Kocham pani\u0105\"<\/em>\u00a0deklaracje, a maluchy promieniej\u0105 dum\u0105.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Ale na ile jest to zdrowe?<\/strong>\u00a0Ocen\u0119 pozostawiam tobie. Osobi\u015bcie? Nigdy mi si\u0119 to nie podoba\u0142o.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Moment szczero\u015bci:<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>Czu\u0142em si\u0119 nawet troch\u0119 zazdrosny.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Rzadko dostawa\u0142em kartki, a je\u015bli ju\u017c, to zazwyczaj by\u0142y one spontaniczne, a nie proszone. Ale s\u0142owa? Och, dostawa\u0142em s\u0142owa. To surowe, niefiltrowane uczucie.\u00a0<em>\"Kocham ci\u0119, prosz\u0119 pani!\", \"Uwielbiam wszystko, co robisz\", \"Wygl\u0105dasz dzi\u015b pi\u0119knie\", twoja koszula jest jak moja mama, taka \u0142adna \".\u00a0<\/em>szepty mi\u0119dzy zaj\u0119ciami, ma\u0142e ramiona owijaj\u0105ce si\u0119 wok\u00f3\u0142 mnie w celu przytulenia, dzieci po prostu\u00a0<em>przyklejony<\/em>\u00a0do mnie, stoj\u0105c nieruchomo, odmawiaj\u0105c puszczania. Powiem ci, \u017ce nie ma nic bardziej pokornego ni\u017c pr\u00f3ba delikatnego odklejenia dziecka, podczas gdy wewn\u0119trznie panikujesz, jak nauczy\u0107 przestrzeni osobistej.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">R\u00f3\u017cnica?\u00a0<strong>Jeden rodzaj uczucia zosta\u0142 podany na tacy z instrukcj\u0105 \"Zr\u00f3b to dla mnie\". Drugi by\u0142 dawany za darmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Jednak ci nauczyciele otrzymali trofea - r\u0119cznie wykonany dow\u00f3d ich \"sukcesu\" w klasie.\u00a0<strong>Nie mog\u0142em tego zrobi\u0107.<\/strong>\u00a0Proszenie dzieci o wzbudzanie podziwu wydawa\u0142o si\u0119 nieetyczne. I tak, by\u0142am zazdrosna, ale w g\u0142\u0119bi duszy wiedzia\u0142am, \u017ce to niesprawiedliwe. Czy kiedykolwiek skonfrontowa\u0142em si\u0119 z tymi nauczycielami? Nie. Zignorowa\u0142em to. Z czasem przesta\u0142o mnie to obchodzi\u0107.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Przedszkolaki i ich ci\u0105gle zmieniaj\u0105ce si\u0119 umys\u0142y<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">B\u0105d\u017amy szczerzy. Ma\u0142e dzieci s\u0105\u00a0<strong>\u0142atwy do ko\u0142ysania<\/strong>. Jednego dnia mo\u017cesz by\u0107 ich bohaterem. A nast\u0119pnego? Czarownic\u0105. Mo\u017ce poprosi\u0142e\u015b je o umycie r\u0105k przed jedzeniem. Mo\u017ce odm\u00f3wi\u0142e\u015b im trzeciego ciasteczka. A mo\u017ce po prostu obudzili si\u0119 po z\u0142ej stronie \u0142\u00f3\u017cka.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Teraz wyobra\u017a sobie, \u017ce pr\u00f3bujesz uzyska\u0107 od nich \"ocen\u0119\".<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Jednego dnia powiedz\u0105 rodzicom, \u017ce jeste\u015b \"najlepszym nauczycielem w historii\". Nast\u0119pnego dnia b\u0119d\u0105 twierdzi\u0107, \u017ce \"zasmuci\u0142e\u015b ich\", poniewa\u017c nie pozwoli\u0142e\u015b im bawi\u0107 si\u0119 niebiesk\u0105 ci\u0119\u017car\u00f3wk\u0105. Trzeciego dnia zapomn\u0105 o wszystkim i wr\u00f3c\u0105 do traktowania ci\u0119 jak ulubionego cz\u0142owieka.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>To wszystko\u00a0<em>pi\u0119knie<\/em>\u00a0nieprzewidywalny.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Jak wi\u0119c w og\u00f3le zacz\u0105\u0107 uzyskiwa\u0107 uczciwe raporty od przedszkolaka? Za po\u015brednictwem rodzic\u00f3w? Jasne, ale wtedy nie dostaniesz dok\u0142adnie\u00a0<em>ich<\/em>\u00a0oceny, prawda? Otrzymujesz przefiltrowan\u0105 wersj\u0119 tego, co oni\u00a0<em>wyb\u00f3r<\/em>\u00a0do udost\u0119pnienia w domu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Manipulacja a autentyczno\u015b\u0107 w edukacji wczesnoszkolnej<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Dodajmy jeszcze jedn\u0105 warstw\u0119. Je\u015bli dzieci \u0142atwo ulegaj\u0105 wp\u0142ywom,\u00a0<strong>Co powstrzymuje nauczycieli przed \"kierowaniem\" swoimi opiniami?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\"Czy dobrze si\u0119 dzisiaj bawi\u0142e\u015b na zaj\u0119ciach?\" (Tak!).<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\"Czy pani jest najlepsza?\" (kiwa g\u0142ow\u0105 z niecierpliwo\u015bci\u0105).<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\"Kochasz pani\u0105?\" (Oczywi\u015bcie!)<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Bum. Oto \u015bwiec\u0105ca recenzja nauczyciela. Ale czy jest prawdziwa?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Prawdziwa miara nauczyciela...<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Na koniec dnia,\u00a0<strong>Najlepsze oceny nie pochodz\u0105 z papieru lub wymuszonych uczu\u0107.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Pojawiaj\u0105 si\u0119 w formie zaufania - kiedy dziecko bez wahania si\u0119ga po twoj\u0105 r\u0119k\u0119. W rozwoju - kiedy nie\u015bmia\u0142e dziecko odnajduje sw\u00f3j g\u0142os dzi\u0119ki tobie. W tych ma\u0142ych, niezapowiedzianych momentach - kiedy widz\u0105 ci\u0119 poza szko\u0142\u0105, a ich twarz si\u0119 rozja\u015bnia. I w drobnych gestach, kt\u00f3re przypominaj\u0105 ci, jakim przywilejem jest bycie cz\u0119\u015bci\u0105 ich \u015bwiata.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Pi\u0119kno dzieci\u0119cego \u015bwiata<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Pi\u0119kno ich \u015bwiata polega na tym, \u017ce\u00a0<em>\u017cy\u0107 chwil\u0105<\/em>. Nie znaj\u0105 dnia wczorajszego i mniej troszcz\u0105 si\u0119 o jutro - tak jak my.\u00a0<em>powinien<\/em>\u00a0\u017cy\u0107, ale cz\u0119sto o tym zapominaj\u0105. I w tym momencie, gdy przychodz\u0105 do ciebie z szeroko otwartymi oczami, m\u00f3wi\u0105c,\u00a0<em>\"Mamo, to dla ciebie!\"<\/em>-Tak,\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>. Cz\u0119sto mnie tak nazywaj\u0105. Na pocz\u0105tku mnie to zaskoczy\u0142o. Dlaczego\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>? Mo\u017ce dlatego, \u017ce jestem przy nich ka\u017cdego dnia, stale obecna w ich ma\u0142ym \u015bwiecie. Mo\u017ce to ciep\u0142o, komfort, spos\u00f3b, w jaki s\u0142ucham lub jak pomagam im z rzeczami, kt\u00f3re wydaj\u0105 si\u0119 tak du\u017ce w ich ma\u0142ych r\u0105czkach. Mo\u017ce to po prostu instynkt - spos\u00f3b, w jaki kojarz\u0105 opiek\u0119 z tym s\u0142owem. I zdaj\u0119 sobie spraw\u0119, \u017ce nie chodzi o zast\u0105pienie kogokolwiek. Chodzi o wi\u0119\u017a, kt\u00f3r\u0105 budujemy w tych ulotnych godzinach, po\u0142\u0105czenie tak naturalne, \u017ce\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>\u00a0po prostu wymyka si\u0119 bez zastanowienia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">S\u0105 te\u017c chwile, gdy ch\u0119tnie dziel\u0105 si\u0119 now\u0105 zabawk\u0105 lub przypadkow\u0105 osobist\u0105 histori\u0105 - cz\u0119sto ca\u0142kowicie zmy\u015blon\u0105, ale kogo to obchodzi? Kiedy widz\u0119 ich wielkie oczy, wype\u0142nione rado\u015bci\u0105 z powodu najmniejszych rzeczy, przypomina mi to, \u017cebym si\u0119 zatrzyma\u0142. Aby\u00a0<em>zob.<\/em>\u00a0rzeczy w spos\u00f3b, w jaki to robi\u0105. Aby pozosta\u0107 w\u00a0<em>to<\/em>\u00a0chwila z nimi. I mo\u017ce, tylko mo\u017ce, przesta\u0107 my\u015ble\u0107 o tym, czy kiedykolwiek dostan\u0119 r\u0119cznie robione serce.\u00a0<em>Poniewa\u017c w ich \u015bwiecie mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 nie jest mierzona w papierze i kleju - to spos\u00f3b, w jaki ci\u0119 widz\u0105.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<!--a=1-->    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- \/module text -->        <\/div>\n                        <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[272,269,268,266,270,265,267,271],"class_list":["post-268","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-early-years-education-parenting","tag-child-observation","tag-child-perspective","tag-classroom-assessment","tag-early-childhood-feedback","tag-preschool-education","tag-preschooler-evaluate-teacher","tag-teacher-reflection","tag-teaching-insights","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"aioseo_notices":[],"builder_content":"<img src=\"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans.png\" title=\"Can Preschooler Evaluate Teacher \u2013 Classroom Insights from Kids\" alt=\"Preschooler evaluating teacher in classroom, giving insights on teaching\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans.png 2240w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/chireveti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Can-Preschoolers-Evaluate-Teachers-A-Report-from-the-Little-Humans-2048x1152.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2240px) 100vw, 2240px\" \/> <h3> Can Preschooler Evaluate Teacher \u2013 Classroom Insights from Kids <\/h3> Even preschoolers can notice and provide feedback on teaching in the classroom.\n<h3>can preschoolers evaluate teachers <\/h3> <p><strong>The Idea That Got Me Thinking<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">I recently stumbled upon a short video where a teacher asked their students for an evaluation. The idea was simple:\u00a0<em>if teachers can assess students, why can\u2019t students evaluate teachers?<\/em>\u00a0It struck me\u2014regardless of the original intent behind that video\u2014that this isn\u2019t a stupid idea at all. But then, my early childhood educator brain had things to whisper.\u00a0<strong>Can this actually work in preschool?<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Short answer?\u00a0<strong>No.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Long answer? Well, let\u2019s break it down.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>The \u201cI Love You, Ma\u2019am\u201d Syndrome<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">I\u2019ve seen it with my own eyes: a teacher tells a class of 3- or 4-year-olds,\u00a0<em>\u201cMake a heart for me! Say you love me! Make a card for me!\u201d<\/em>\u00a0And sure enough, tiny hands start cutting, drawing, gluing, and\u2014<strong>boom!<\/strong>\u2014a pile of heartfelt masterpieces appears. The teacher is showered with\u00a0<em>\u201cI love you, Ma\u2019am\u201d<\/em>\u00a0declarations, and the little ones beam with pride.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>But how healthy is this?<\/strong>\u00a0I leave that for you to evaluate. Personally? I never liked it.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Honesty moment:<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>I even felt a little jealous.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">I rarely got cards, and if I did, they were usually spontaneous, not requested. But words? Oh, I got words. That raw, unfiltered affection.\u00a0<em>\u201cI love you, Ma\u2019am!\u201d, \u201cI love everything you do\u201d, \u201cyou look beautiful today\u201d, your shirt is like my moms, so pretty \u201c\u00a0<\/em>whispered between activities, little arms wrapping around me for a hug, children simply\u00a0<em>glued<\/em>\u00a0to me, standing still, refusing to let go. Let me tell you, nothing humbles you more than trying to gently peel a child off while internally panicking about how to teach personal space.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">The difference?\u00a0<strong>One kind of affection was handed over on a platter with a \"Make This for Me\" instruction. The other was freely given.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Yet, those teachers got the trophies\u2014the handmade proof of their \u201csuccess\u201d in the classroom.\u00a0<strong>I couldn\u2019t do it.<\/strong>\u00a0Asking kids to manufacture admiration felt unethical. And yes, I was jealous, but I knew deep down it wasn\u2019t fair. Did I ever confront those teachers? No. I ignored it. Over time, I stopped caring.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Pre-schoolers and Their Ever-Changing Minds<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Let\u2019s be real. Young children are\u00a0<strong>easy to sway<\/strong>. One day, you might be their hero. The next? A witch. Maybe you asked them to wash their hands before eating. Maybe you said no to their third cookie. Or maybe, just maybe, they simply woke up on the wrong side of the bed.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>Now imagine trying to get an \u201cevaluation\u201d from them.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">One day, they will tell their parents you\u2019re \u201cthe best teacher ever.\u201d The next day, they will claim you \u201cmade them sad\u201d because you didn\u2019t let them play with the blue truck. By the third day, they\u2019ve forgotten everything and are back to treating you like their favourite human.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>It\u2019s all\u00a0<em>beautifully<\/em>\u00a0unpredictable.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">So, how do you even begin to get a fair report from a preschooler? Through parents? Sure, but then you\u2019re not exactly getting\u00a0<em>their<\/em>\u00a0evaluation, are you? You\u2019re getting a filtered version of what they\u00a0<em>choose<\/em>\u00a0to share at home.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>Manipulation vs. Authenticity in Early Childhood Education<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Let\u2019s throw in another layer. If kids can be easily influenced,\u00a0<strong>what stops teachers from \u201cguiding\u201d their feedback?<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\u201cDid you have fun in class today?\u201d (Yes!)<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\u201cIs Ma\u2019am the best?\u201d (Nods eagerly.)<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">\u201cDo you love Ma\u2019am?\u201d (Of course!)<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Boom. There\u2019s your glowing teacher review. But is it real?<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\"><strong>The Real Measure of a Teacher..<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">At the end of the day,\u00a0<strong>the best evaluations don\u2019t come from paper or forced affection.<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">They come in the form of trust\u2014when a child reaches for your hand without hesitation. In growth\u2014when a shy kid finds their voice because of you. In those small, unprompted moments\u2014when they see you outside of school and their face lights up. And in the tiny gestures that remind you what a privilege it is to be part of their world.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 3;&quot;}\"><strong>The Beauty of a Child\u2019s World<\/strong><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">The beauty of their world is that they\u00a0<em>live in the moment<\/em>. They don\u2019t know yesterday and care less about tomorrow\u2014the way we\u00a0<em>should<\/em>\u00a0be living, but often forget. And in that moment, when they come to you, wide-eyed with excitement, saying,\u00a0<em>\u201cMama, this is for you!\u201d<\/em>\u2014yes,\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>. They often call me that. At first, it surprised me. Why\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>? Maybe because I\u2019m there for them every day, a constant presence in their little world. Maybe it\u2019s the warmth, the comfort, the way I listen, or how I help them with things that seem so big in their tiny hands. Maybe it\u2019s just instinct\u2014the way they associate care with that word. And I realize, it\u2019s not about replacing anyone. It\u2019s about the bond we build in those fleeting hours, a connection so natural that\u00a0<em>Mama<\/em>\u00a0just slips out without a second thought.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;&quot;}\">Then there are those moments when they eagerly share a new toy, or a random personal story\u2014often an entirely imaginary one, but who cares? When I see their big eyes, filled with joy over the smallest things, it reminds me to pause. To\u00a0<em>see<\/em>\u00a0things the way they do. To stay in\u00a0<em>this<\/em>\u00a0moment with them. And maybe, just maybe, to stop overthinking whether I\u2019d ever get a handmade heart.\u00a0<em>Because in their world, love isn\u2019t measured in paper and glue\u2014it\u2019s in the way they see you.<\/em><\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-original-attrs=\"{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\">\u00a0<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/268","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=268"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/268\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1129,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/268\/revisions\/1129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=268"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=268"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=268"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}