{"id":384,"date":"2025-05-18T08:34:29","date_gmt":"2025-05-18T06:34:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/?p=384"},"modified":"2025-08-29T06:38:32","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T01:08:32","slug":"gurgaon-civic-issues-list-milosny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/gurgaon-civic-issues-love-letter","title":{"rendered":"Kwestie obywatelskie w Gurgaon"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-384\" data-postid=\"384\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-384 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n                    <div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_row themify_builder_row tb_xdzp367 tb_first tf_w\">\n                        <div class=\"row_inner col_align_top tb_col_count_1 tf_box tf_rel\">\n                        <div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_column tb-column col-full tb_rqux368 first\">\n                    <!-- module text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-text tb_yss9641\" data-lazy=\"1\">\n    <h3 class=\"module-title\">Rzeczywisto\u015b\u0107 nie jest negatywna <\/h3>    <div  class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n        <h1>Kwestie obywatelskie Gurgaon: List mi\u0142osny z odwa\u017cnymi akcentami<\/h1>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Za ka\u017cdym razem, gdy m\u00f3wi\u0119 o tym, co nie dzia\u0142a w mie\u015bcie, kto\u015b jest gotowy z szybk\u0105 etykiet\u0105: \"Jeste\u015b zbyt negatywny\". Naprawd\u0119? Od kiedy m\u00f3wienie prawdy jest przest\u0119pstwem? Widz\u0119 problem i nazywam go. Nie oznacza to, \u017ce nie dostrzegam pi\u0119kna, dobra czy post\u0119pu. W rzeczywisto\u015bci ka\u017cdego dnia staram si\u0119 zauwa\u017ca\u0107 to, co pozytywne wok\u00f3\u0142 mnie - jest tego mn\u00f3stwo! Ale os\u0142adzanie wszystkiego w imi\u0119 \"pozytywno\u015bci\" nie jest w moim stylu. Je\u015bli m\u00f3wi\u0119, \u017ce nie czuj\u0119 si\u0119 dobrze, oznacza to, \u017ce szanuj\u0119 siebie na tyle, by o tym nie k\u0142ama\u0107. A je\u015bli m\u00f3wi\u0119, \u017ce miasto - to tak zwane \"miasto tysi\u0105clecia\" - ma powa\u017cne problemy, to dlatego, \u017ce wierz\u0119, \u017ce sta\u0107 nas na wi\u0119cej.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Zacznijmy od rozs\u0105dku obywatelskiego.<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dlaczego stanie w kolejce to taka wielka sprawa? Dlaczego czekanie na swoj\u0105 kolej jest takim wyzwaniem? Populacja? Prosz\u0119. Sp\u00f3jrz na Japoni\u0119. Nie chodzi o liczb\u0119 ludzi. Chodzi o to, jak ludzie si\u0119 zachowuj\u0105. Kolejki, skrzy\u017cowania, zdrowy rozs\u0105dek - to nie jest fizyka j\u0105drowa. A jednak tutaj cz\u0119sto panuje chaos tr\u0105bienia, przepychania si\u0119 i przecinania linii, poniewa\u017c ka\u017cdy spieszy si\u0119 bardziej ni\u017c nast\u0119pny.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Porozmawiajmy o drogach.<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Albo to, co z nich zosta\u0142o. Dziury, wyboje, po\u0142amane \u0142aty - cz\u0119sto z wystaj\u0105cym z nich patykiem, hojnie umieszczonym przez \u017cyczliw\u0105 dusz\u0119, aby ostrzec nast\u0119pn\u0105 ofiar\u0119. Naprawy s\u0105 wykonywane w spos\u00f3b \"jugaad\" - tymczasowe poprawki, kt\u00f3re maj\u0105 trwa\u0107, dop\u00f3ki kto\u015b nie zostanie powa\u017cnie ranny. Nie ma bezpiecze\u0144stwa wok\u00f3\u0142 plac\u00f3w budowy, nie ma znak\u00f3w ostrzegawczych. Skr\u0119casz w ulic\u0119 i oops - zablokowane. Wracasz. Gdzie s\u0105 przepisy? Dlaczego czekamy na szkody, zanim co\u015b zrobimy? Dlaczego patchwork jest bardziej powszechny ni\u017c planowanie?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Drena\u017c?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Nawet nie chc\u0119 zaczyna\u0107. Podczas ka\u017cdego monsunu potrzebujemy \u0142odzi. Smr\u00f3d, ba\u0142agan - czy to normalne w mie\u015bcie pe\u0142nym dom\u00f3w za miliardy dolar\u00f3w? M\u00f3wi\u0105c o tym, ludzie mieszkaj\u0105 w Araliach, Kameliach, milionowych mieszkaniach z designerskimi psami i basenami bez kraw\u0119dzi, ale zgadnij co? Przed ich budynkami nie ma przej\u015bcia dla pieszych. Pracownicy, nianie, ochroniarze - musz\u0105 omija\u0107 ruch uliczny, aby przej\u015b\u0107 na drug\u0105 stron\u0119 ulicy. Kto zaplanowa\u0142 to miasto? Dla kogo? I nie m\u00f3w mi, \u017ce to wina Brytyjczyk\u00f3w. Jest rok 2025. Masz swoj\u0105 niezale\u017cno\u015b\u0107, sw\u00f3j m\u00f3zg, swoje pieni\u0105dze. Wykorzystajcie je. Zbudujcie co\u015b lepszego. Przesta\u0144 obwinia\u0107 przesz\u0142o\u015b\u0107, kiedy masz w\u0142adz\u0119 w tera\u017aniejszo\u015bci.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Porozmawiajmy o prowadzeniu samochodu.<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Kiedy\u015b przewraca\u0142am oczami, gdy m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani wyg\u0142aszali te swobodne, seksistowskie komentarze na temat kobiet kierowc\u00f3w. \"Och, prosz\u0119\", m\u00f3wi\u0142am. \"Widzia\u0142e\u015b kobiety z Gurgaon?\". Te kobiety je\u017cd\u017c\u0105 jak profesjonalistki! Je\u017cd\u017c\u0119 tu od wczesnych lat 2000 - kiedy nie by\u0142o sygna\u0142\u00f3w, nie by\u0142o \u015bwiate\u0142 ulicznych, tylko \"honk honk\" z ka\u017cdego kierunku i nadzieja na najlepsze. Poruszam si\u0119 po mie\u015bcie jak zawodowiec, podobnie jak wiele innych kobiet. Opanowa\u0142y ten chaos. Ale b\u0105d\u017amy szczerzy - niekt\u00f3re z nas r\u00f3wnie\u017c zamieni\u0142y si\u0119 w byki. Z zamkni\u0119tymi oczami przemieszczamy si\u0119 z punktu A do B, jakby\u015bmy by\u0142y kr\u00f3lowymi Anglii. Bez kierunkowskaz\u00f3w, bez luster, bez zasad. Push, switch, squeeze - zero \u015bwiadomo\u015bci. I bro\u0144 Bo\u017ce, \u017ceby kto\u015b nam to wytkn\u0105\u0142! W\u0142\u0105cza si\u0119 tryb obronny. \"Jak \u015bmiesz mnie kwestionowa\u0107? Jestem kobiet\u0105!\" Nie, prosz\u0119 pani, to nie jest feminizm. To po prostu z\u0142e zachowanie z problemem ego. Przepraszanie to zaginiona sztuka. Nikt nie przyznaje si\u0119 do winy. Nikt nie m\u00f3wi przepraszam i nie ma tego na my\u015bli. Dlaczego? Poniewa\u017c g\u0142o\u015bniejsze krzyczenie mo\u017ce sprawi\u0107, \u017ce druga osoba si\u0119 wycofa. \"Pozw\u00f3l mi ich przestraszy\u0107, zanim mnie przes\u0142uchaj\u0105\". Gry o w\u0142adz\u0119. Ego tripy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>M\u00f3wi\u0105c o wycieczkach w\u0142adzy...<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Czy zauwa\u017cy\u0142e\u015b, jak ludzie zachowuj\u0105 si\u0119 w miejscach publicznych? W tym mie\u015bcie jest tyle energii - i to nie tej przyjaznej. Jedno ma\u0142e nieporozumienie i bum! Krzyki, wyzwiska, dramat. Zw\u0142aszcza je\u015bli atakuj\u0105cy widzi, \u017ce druga osoba jest \"ni\u017cej\" w jakim\u015b spo\u0142ecznym rankingu - tylko jedna z\u0142ota szansa, aby poczu\u0107 si\u0119 \"wi\u0119kszym\", aby pokaza\u0107 \"mog\u0119\". To wyczerpuj\u0105ce. R\u00f3wnie\u017c kobiety zacz\u0119\u0142y na\u015bladowa\u0107 t\u0119 agresj\u0119. T\u0119skni\u0119 za dniami, kiedy m\u00f3wili\u015bmy z wdzi\u0119kiem. W naszej godno\u015bci by\u0142 urok, w opanowaniu pi\u0119kno. Teraz to jak walka bokserska z b\u0142yszczykiem na ustach. Krzyczenie na ulicach, rzucanie obelgami - to nie jest wzmocnienie. To chaos. Si\u0142a nie musi by\u0107 g\u0142o\u015bna. Grzeczno\u015b\u0107 nie jest s\u0142abo\u015bci\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Pozwol\u0119 sobie poruszy\u0107 delikatn\u0105 kwesti\u0119: oddawanie moczu w miejscach publicznych.<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Tak, poprawi\u0142o si\u0119. Ale nadal mog\u0119 ich dostrzec - tych dumnych \"sikaj\u0105cych kr\u00f3l\u00f3w\" na poboczu drogi. Rozpi\u0119te rozporki, wyci\u0105gni\u0119ty dingdong, zero wstydu. I to plucie! O m\u00f3j Bo\u017ce, to plucie. G\u0142\u0119bokie, dramatyczne zdzieranie gard\u0142a, po kt\u00f3rym nast\u0119puje wystrzelenie pocisku - to jak sport narodowy. Dlaczego? Dlaczego ca\u0142y \u015bwiat musi s\u0142ysze\u0107 i widzie\u0107 twoje wewn\u0119trzne oczyszczenie? Bekanie, pierdzenie - tak, \"naturalne\", a nawet \"zdrowe\". Ale na lito\u015b\u0107 bosk\u0105, zachowaj to dla siebie. Nie ka\u017cda tradycja musi by\u0107 noszona jak odznaka. Jeste\u015bmy w mie\u015bcie, kt\u00f3re twierdzi, \u017ce jest globalne. Niekt\u00f3re rzeczy mog\u0105 pozosta\u0107 w uk\u0142adzie pokarmowym, dzi\u0119kuj\u0119 bardzo. Mo\u017cesz robi\u0107 wszystkie swoje puff i gaff w domu, ile chcesz - wszyscy to robimy. Po prostu nie paraduj z tym dumnie publicznie, jakby to by\u0142o jakie\u015b kulturowe trofeum. W wielu cz\u0119\u015bciach \u015bwiata jest to po prostu uwa\u017cane za... obrzydliwe.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>A co ze zwierz\u0119tami?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dlaczego wci\u0105\u017c udajemy, \u017ce psy uliczne nie istniej\u0105, dop\u00f3ki kogo\u015b nie ugryz\u0105? Gdzie jest organ rz\u0105dowy odpowiedzialny za kontrol\u0119 narodzin, bezpiecze\u0144stwa i zdrowia bezpa\u0144skich zwierz\u0105t? A krowy przechodz\u0105ce przez drogi - dlaczego tak si\u0119 spieszysz, gdy widzisz zwierz\u0119? Czcisz je, ale nie zatrzymujesz si\u0119 dla nich? Hipokryzja na wysokim poziomie zas\u0142uguje na ca\u0142y artyku\u0142 naukowy. Ludzie wyrzucaj\u0105 \u015bmieci z okien swoich samochod\u00f3w, traktuj\u0105 ziemi\u0119 jak \u015bmietnik, a nast\u0119pnego ranka robi\u0105 pud\u017c\u0119. Prosz\u0119 o wyja\u015bnienie. A \u015brodowisko? Wystarczy zobaczy\u0107 Leopard Trail. Kiedy\u015b oaza spokoju, teraz strefa imprez. G\u0142o\u015bna muzyka, samochody, \u015bmieci. Dlaczego ludzie musz\u0105 wsz\u0119dzie wprowadza\u0107 chaos? Czy niekt\u00f3re miejsca nie mog\u0105 pozosta\u0107 \u015bwi\u0119te, nawet bez \u015bwi\u0105ty\u0144?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Zatrzymajmy si\u0119 na chwil\u0119 i przyznajmy:<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Tak, Gurgaon mo\u017ce by\u0107 pi\u0119kny. Niekt\u00f3re budynki, restauracje, przestrzenie kulturalne - to jak wej\u015bcie do innego kraju. Czujesz si\u0119 jak w muzeum lub na scenie pi\u0119knego europejskiego teatru. Projekt, detale, atmosfera - to jest osza\u0142amiaj\u0105ce. Ale poczekaj... co kilka metr\u00f3w, co widzisz? Thekas. Sklepy z alkoholem. Wspania\u0142e, \u015bwiec\u0105ce, o\u015bwietlone lepiej ni\u017c szpitale. B\u0142yszcz\u0105 jak \u015bwi\u0105tynie \u015bwi\u0119tego Graala. Zaprojektowane jak a\u015bramy upojenia. Nie obowi\u0105zuj\u0105 tu \u017cadne zasady dotycz\u0105ce \u015bmieci. Te \u015bwi\u0105tynie szumu s\u0105 budowane tu\u017c przy g\u0142\u00f3wnych drogach - dlaczego? \u0141atwy dost\u0119p, oczywi\u015bcie. Ruch uliczny? Kogo to obchodzi! Musz\u0119 si\u0119 zatrzyma\u0107 i \u0142ykn\u0105\u0107. Jestem szefem. To jest energia.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>A szko\u0142y?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>R\u00f3wnie\u017c na g\u0142\u00f3wnych drogach. Brak stref zrzutu. Brak kana\u0142\u00f3w bezpiecze\u0144stwa dla dzieci. Chaos w godzinach szczytu, w\u015bciekli kierowcy, dzieci wci\u015bni\u0119te mi\u0119dzy zderzaki - i zastanawiamy si\u0119, dlaczego dorastaj\u0105, by powtarza\u0107 to samo szale\u0144stwo? Brak planowania. Brak podziemnych parking\u00f3w. Nawet nauczyciele zmagaj\u0105 si\u0119 ze znalezieniem parkingu, rozpoczynaj\u0105c dzie\u0144 ju\u017c zestresowani, modl\u0105c si\u0119, aby ich samoch\u00f3d nie zosta\u0142 uszkodzony, podczas gdy oni piel\u0119gnuj\u0105 przysz\u0142o\u015b\u0107 tego kraju.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>A skoro ju\u017c jeste\u015bmy szczerzy - czy mo\u017cemy r\u00f3wnie\u017c porozmawia\u0107 o dost\u0119pno\u015bci?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Gdzie s\u0105 rampy, \u015bcie\u017cki dotykowe, przemy\u015blane projekty, kt\u00f3re uwzgl\u0119dniaj\u0105 wszystkich? Pr\u00f3bowa\u0142e\u015b kiedy\u015b pcha\u0107 w\u00f3zek po chodniku? Och, czekaj - jak\u0105 \u015bcie\u017ck\u0105? To wszystko to po\u0142amane p\u0142ytki, porzucony gruz lub samochody zaparkowane tak, jakby to by\u0142 ich prywatny podjazd. I nawet nie wspominaj o w\u00f3zkach inwalidzkich. Je\u015bli nie poruszasz si\u0119 na dw\u00f3ch nogach z refleksem ninja, powodzenia w przetrwaniu w miejskiej d\u017cungli. Rozmawiamy o w\u0142\u0105czeniu na wyszukanych konferencjach, ale zapominamy o podstawach poza naszymi drzwiami. Dost\u0119pno\u015b\u0107 to nie dobroczynno\u015b\u0107 - to godno\u015b\u0107. Dlaczego tak si\u0119 dzieje? Dlaczego planowanie nie jest futurystyczne, inkluzywne ani przemy\u015blane? Dlaczego zysk jest wa\u017cniejszy od ludzi? I moje ostatnie pytanie - je\u015bli Gurgaon tak si\u0119 d\u0142awi, to czy nowe miasta wyci\u0105gn\u0105 z tego wnioski? Czy te\u017c zbudujemy kolejne centrum chaosu zaledwie kilka kilometr\u00f3w dalej, powt\u00f3rzymy wszystkie b\u0142\u0119dy i b\u0119dziemy obwinia\u0107 te same stare rzeczy? To tak, jakby ludzie zachowywali si\u0119 jak wirus. Gdziekolwiek si\u0119 pojawi\u0105, niszcz\u0105, konsumuj\u0105, uszkadzaj\u0105. Gdzie jest szacunek dla przestrzeni, dla system\u00f3w, dla siebie nawzajem?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>To nie jest negatywne nastawienie. To list mi\u0142osny z pogrubionymi akcentami.<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Tak, s\u0105 dobrzy ludzie. \u017byczliwo\u015b\u0107 istnieje. S\u0105 tacy, kt\u00f3rzy karmi\u0105 zwierz\u0119ta, pomagaj\u0105 nieznajomym, utrzymuj\u0105 swoje miejsca w czysto\u015bci. Widz\u0119 ich, szanuj\u0119 ich. Ale kiedy ich dobro\u0107 jest zag\u0142uszana przez ha\u0142as ignorancji, jaki z tego po\u017cytek? Jeste\u015b teraz wolny. Wykorzystaj t\u0119 wolno\u015b\u0107, by tworzy\u0107 pi\u0119kno, a nie tylko zysk. Aby szanowa\u0107 przestrze\u0144, czas, siebie nawzajem. To nie jest negatywno\u015b\u0107. To list mi\u0142osny z pogrubionymi akcentami. M\u00f3wi\u0119, bo mi zale\u017cy. Nazywam rzeczy, poniewa\u017c mam nadziej\u0119 na zmian\u0119. A je\u015bli to sprawia, \u017ce jestem \"zbyt szczery\", c\u00f3\u017c... wol\u0119 by\u0107 prawdziwy ni\u017c milcze\u0107.<\/p>\n<!--a=1--><!--a=1-->    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- \/module text -->        <\/div>\n                        <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To nie jest negatywna ocena - to list mi\u0142osny z odwa\u017cnymi akcentami. Szczere spojrzenie na brak poczucia obywatelskiego, zepsute drogi i niewypowiedziany chaos w \"mie\u015bcie tysi\u0105clecia\", z mocnym przekonaniem, \u017ce mo\u017cemy zrobi\u0107 to lepiej.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":385,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[117,121,116,118,122,119,123,124,120],"class_list":["post-384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-everyday-life-humor","tag-civic-issues","tag-civic-sense","tag-gurgaon","tag-india","tag-infrastructure","tag-public-behavior","tag-social-commentary","tag-urban-life","tag-urban-planning","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t<!-- All in One SEO 4.9.9 - aioseo.com -->\n\t<meta name=\"description\" content=\"This isn&#039;t negativity\u2014it&#039;s a love letter with bold highlights. 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Since when did speaking the truth become a crime? I see a problem and I name it. That doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t see beauty, goodness, or progress. In fact, I make sure every single day to notice what\u2019s positive around me\u2014there\u2019s plenty! But sugarcoating everything in the name of \"positivity\" is not my style. If I say I\u2019m not okay, it means I respect myself enough not to lie about it. And if I say a city\u2014this so-called \u201cmillennium city\u201d\u2014has serious issues, it\u2019s because I believe we can do better.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Let\u2019s start with civic sense.<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Why is standing in line such a big deal? Why is waiting for your turn such a challenge? Population? Please. Look at Japan. It\u2019s not about how many people. It\u2019s about how people behave. Queues, crossings, common sense\u2014it\u2019s not rocket science. Yet here, it\u2019s often a turmoil of honking, pushing, and cutting lines, because everyone\u2019s in a bigger rush than the next.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Let\u2019s talk roads.<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Or what\u2019s left of them. Holes, potholes, broken patches\u2014often with a stick poking out of them, generously placed by a kind soul to warn the next victim. Repairs are done the \u201cjugaad\u201d way\u2014temporary fixes meant to last until someone gets seriously hurt. There\u2019s no safety around construction sites, no warning signs. You turn into a street, and oops\u2014blocked. Go back. Where\u2019s the regulation? Why do we wait for damage before we do something? Why is patchwork more common than planning?<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Drainage?<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Don't even get me started. Every monsoon we need boats. The stench, the mess\u2014how is this normal in a city full of billion-dollar homes? Speaking of which, people live in Aralias, Camellias, million-rupee condos with designer dogs and infinity pools, but guess what? There\u2019s no zebra crossing in front of their buildings. Workers, nannies, security guards\u2014they have to dodge traffic just to cross the road. Who planned this city? For whom? And don\u2019t tell me it\u2019s all the British fault. It\u2019s 2025. You have your independence, your brains, your money. Use them. Build something better. Stop blaming the past when you have power in the present.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Let\u2019s talk about driving.<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>I used to roll my eyes when men made those casual, sexist comments about women drivers. \u201cOh please,\u201d I\u2019d say. \u201cHave you seen Gurgaon women?\u201d These women drive like pros! I\u2019ve been driving here since the early 2000s\u2014back when there were no signals, no streetlights, just \u201chonk honk\u201d from every direction and hope for the best. I zoom through the city like a pro, and many other women do too. They\u2019ve mastered this chaos. But let\u2019s be real\u2014some of us have also turned into bulls. Eyes shut, we move from point A to B like we\u2019re queens of England. No indicators, no mirrors, no rules. Push, switch, squeeze\u2014zero awareness. And God forbid someone points it out! The defense mode activates. \u201cHow dare you question me? I\u2019m a woman!\u201d No ma\u2019am, that\u2019s not feminism. That\u2019s just bad behavior with an ego problem. Apologizing is a lost art. No one admits fault. No one says sorry and means it. Why? Because shouting louder might just make the other person back off. \u201cLet me scare them before they question me.\u201d Power games. Ego trips.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Speaking of power trips...<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Have you noticed the way people behave in public? There\u2019s so much energy in this city\u2014and not the friendly kind. One small disagreement, and boom! Shouting, insults, drama. Especially if the attacker sees that the other person is \u201clower\u201d in some social rank\u2014just one golden chance to feel \u201cbigger,\u201d to show \u201cI can.\u201d It\u2019s exhausting. And women, too, have started mimicking this aggression. I miss the days when we spoke with grace. There was charm in our dignity, beauty in composure. Now, it's like a full-on boxing match with lip gloss. Screaming on streets, throwing insults\u2014it\u2019s not empowerment. It\u2019s chaos. Strength doesn\u2019t have to be loud. Politeness isn\u2019t weakness.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Let me touch a delicate one: urinating in public.<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Yes, it\u2019s improved. But I can still spot them\u2014those proud \u201cpissing kings\u201d on the roadside. Zippers down, dingdong out, no shame in sight. And the spitting! Oh my god, the spitting. The deep, dramatic throat-clearing followed by a projectile launch\u2014it\u2019s like a national sport. Why? Why must the entire world hear and see your internal cleansing? Burping, farting\u2014yes yes, \"natural\" and even \"healthy.\" But for heaven\u2019s sake, keep it personal. Not every tradition needs to be worn like a badge. We\u2019re in a city that claims to be global. Some things can stay within your digestive system, thank you very much. You can do all your puff and gaff at home, as much as you want\u2014we all do. Just don\u2019t parade it proudly in public like it\u2019s some cultural trophy. In many parts of the world, it\u2019s just considered\u2026 gross.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>And what about animals?<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Why are we still pretending street dogs don\u2019t exist until they bite someone? Where is the government body responsible for controlling birth, safety, and health of strays? And cows crossing the roads\u2014why the rush when you see an animal? You worship them but don\u2019t stop for them? High-level hypocrisy deserves a whole research paper. People throw garbage from their car windows, treat the earth like a dustbin, and yet do pooja the next morning. Please explain. And the environment? Just go see Leopard Trail. Once a haven of peace, now a party zone. Loud music, cars, trash. Why do people need to bring chaos everywhere they go? Can't some places stay sacred, even without temples?<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>Let\u2019s pause for a moment and acknowledge:<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Yes, Gurgaon can be beautiful. Some buildings, restaurants, cultural spaces\u2014it\u2019s like entering a different country. You feel like you\u2019re in a museum, or a scene from a beautiful European theatre. The design, the detail, the ambience\u2014it\u2019s stunning. But just wait\u2026 every few meters, what do you see? Thekas. Alcohol shops. Glorious, glowing, better lit than hospitals. They sparkle like temples of the holy grail. Designed like ashrams of intoxication. No garbage rules apply here. These temples of buzz are built right on the main roads\u2014why? Easy access, of course. Traffic? Who cares! I must stop and sip. I\u2019m the boss. That\u2019s the energy.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>And schools?<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Also on the main roads. No drop-off zones. No safety channels for kids. Rush hour chaos, angry drivers, children squeezed in between bumpers\u2014and we wonder why they grow up to repeat the same madness? No planning. No underground parking. Even teachers struggle to find parking, starting their day already stressed, praying their car isn\u2019t damaged while they're nurturing the future of this country.<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>And while we\u2019re being honest\u2014can we also talk about accessibility?<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Where are the ramps, the tactile paths, the thoughtful designs that include everyone? Ever tried pushing a stroller on a footpath here? Oh wait\u2014what footpath? It's all broken tiles, dumped debris, or cars parked like it\u2019s their private driveway. And don\u2019t even mention wheelchairs. If you\u2019re not on two feet with ninja reflexes, good luck surviving the urban jungle. We talk about inclusion in fancy conferences, but forget the basics outside our doors. Accessibility isn\u2019t charity\u2014it\u2019s dignity. Why does this happen? Why is planning not futuristic, inclusive, or thoughtful? Why is everything profit over people? And my last question\u2014if Gurgaon is getting so choked, will the new cities learn from it? Or will we build the next chaos center just a few kilometers further, repeat all mistakes, and blame the same old things? It\u2019s like people behave like a virus. Wherever they go, they destroy, consume, damage. Where is the respect\u2014for space, for systems, for each other?<\/p> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <h2>This isn\u2019t negativity. This is a love letter with bold highlights.<\/h2> <p>\u00a0<\/p> <p>Yes, there are good people. Kindness exists. There are those who feed animals, help strangers, keep their spaces clean. I see them, I honor them. But when their goodness is drowned by the noise of ignorance, what\u2019s the use? You\u2019re free now. Use that freedom to create beauty, not just profit. To respect space, time, each other. This isn\u2019t negativity. This is a love letter with bold highlights. I speak because I care. I name things because I hope for change. And if that makes me \u201ctoo honest,\u201d well\u2026 I\u2019d rather be real than silent.<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/384","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=384"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/384\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":917,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/384\/revisions\/917"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=384"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=384"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chireveti.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=384"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}